its depends on your luck. ha3..... ok, thats not the tip.... noted!
hmmm, anyway x semua org bernasib baik dpt mak mertua yg tune nye sama ngan menantu esp menantu perempuan. i have a friendssss yg diorang bukan setakat x ngam, malahan nk blk umh mak mertua pun dah x koser.. lg rela g shopping mall katanya.
me, alhamdulillah... we can get along very well. mgkn experience lalu menjadikan dia bertekad x mau jd cam mak mertuanya. so, its good for me lah. ngeh3....
me, alhamdulillah... we can get along very well. mgkn experience lalu menjadikan dia bertekad x mau jd cam mak mertuanya. so, its good for me lah. ngeh3....
ikut aku, the most important is treat her as your own mother. of coz lah x sama mcm mak sendiri kan... but do remember yg syorga isteri is under suami... and syorga suami is under his mother. secara x langsung syorga kita pun under mak mertua gak. treat her well and the same thing will goes to u [unless u x sincere].
2nd, have a good communication with her. b'cakap la elok2 ngan dia... gurau2.. puji2... se'laser mana pun mulut tu... tlg simpan kelaseran tu kat tmpt lain. ini tidak, mentang2 lah mak mertua tu mok2... ko sesedap ati je sound.. pastu tau pulak kecik ati kalu mak mertua sound balik.
i.e [MM - mak mertua, MH - menantu hantu :
MM : alamak, esk mak kena g jumpa doktor. mesti doktor marah sbb bdn mak mcm naik lg ni
MH : hmmm, tau pulak takut jumpa doktor..tp masa mkn x beringat. cuba2 lah kurang2kan sket makan tu mommy
MM : gulp.... [telan air liur *hampeh nye menantu..sound direct ko ek*]
3rd, jaga ank dia elok2. haaaaaa, tang ni cam ssh sket kot n sgt subjektif. kengkadang kita rasa kita dh buat sehabis baik... tp ank nye kata still x ok. lg lah pulak kalu yg jenis mengadu... perghh!!! tension... hmmm, as long dh jaga mkn pakai n layan ank dia sebaik mungkin... selebihnya doa dan tawakal aje lah. manusia mmg x pernah puas kan??
others... rajin2 tepon tanya kabo kalu x b'kesempatan ziarah, share the kids development, mintak nasihat kalu ada apa2 mslh, mintak resepi, etc.
n lagi satu... toksah nk surprised2.. teringat satu kes. konon2 nk wat surprised psl beli umh dahlia ni... amik ko..... merajuk mak mertua aku. huhuhu... ssh gak nk pujuk. so what i've learned here.... utk benda2 beso camtu, toksah lah berahsia a.k.a. surprised.. that things should be discussed 2gather with them. make them feel they're part of us in decision making.
apa2pun, x rugi wat baik ngan mak mertua sndr.... byk benefitnya...
loves,
apa2pun, x rugi wat baik ngan mak mertua sndr.... byk benefitnya...
loves,
