Monday, March 04, 2013

being abang long

my question : is it hard to be anak sulong?

personally i didnt know coz i'm the youngest in family. generally for me anak sulong is anak harapan. being a harapan, maksudnya u have to be : KUAT SEMANGAT, BERILMU, BERSABAR, RAJIN dan PENUH KASIH SAYANG. let say the parents meninggal dunia, yg sulong la yg akn jadi tmpt bergantung n menjaga adik[s]. 

is adam ready being my expected 'abang long'? 
hahahaha..... tengok masa. but based on my observation, he knew that we will depends on him someday. sebenarnya selalu je bgtau dia.... borak2 camni dgn dia. 

"adam.... bila ibu n ayah xde, adam kena jaga kakak n aidil tau" sambil wat suara sedih
"ibu ayah nk g mana?"
"hmmmm.... ibu ayah dh meninggal. masuk dlm kubur"
"........... tp adam x pandai masak. kalu lapar mcm mana?"
"adam kena lah belajar masak..... so nanti x yah susahkan org lain"
"x nak la....ibu ayah jgn mati lah"

as a mother yg tinggi expectation nye, kecik2 lg dia dh kena trained. and he doing well dalam menjaga/main dgn si aidil.. monitor kakak kat sekolah like 'big taiko', kemas mainan, kemas katil, etc... tp ada jugak time yg mmg xleh nk harap. hahaha.... takpe la. he still 6 years old boy.



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